good check up

My son is in prison for at least 20 months for drug related thefts. You can't buy drugs without money. You can't work if you're messed up on drugs, so you steal stuff to get your drugs. Easy enough till you get caught. Anyway. He also has cancer. I know, it sounds terrible, but it is in remission after 3 surgeries and 3 rounds of chemo. He goes for check ups now. The nursing staff in the faciltiy where he is arranges his follow up visits now. He isn't told when he is going ahead of time for security reasons, Rules are rules. So I have had to let go of being the care giver and making sure I got him to his appointments and paid attention to what was said because he wouldn/t necessairily remember, depending on his frame of mind the next week or next month when he needed to remember something. The good news is that he got a good check up both with Urology and Cancer clinics. He will go back again for another visit but he will not be told when that is, again for security reasons. Assuming he makes it through May without a recurrence, he will then only have to go every other month to the cancer clinic. Yea!!